ok.
i am sorta complaining again.
i just feel like i do it all.
work, clean, pay bills, schedule appts., go to said appts., chores, etc.
i mean, i could go on and on all day.
i ask my husband to do two things. litter box and garbage.
not empty all garbage into one and then take out, just take it out of bin when full.
he manages to let things FALL out of the bin.
GROSS.
then the litter box.
2 cats = DO IT DAILY.
UGH.
so, i try to keep a tidy house but with husband around, it is impossible.
socks, underoos, pants, shoes all over bedroom.
he opens a container, finishes what's in side and leaves the lid on the counter.
don't get me started on the bright a.s.s. red whiskers all over the bathroom sink the DAY AFTER i scrubbed it.
don't get me started on the bright a.s.s. red whiskers all over the bathroom sink the DAY AFTER i scrubbed it.
now, i get that some men do not care for a tidy house like we do but come on.
our little sick cat pooped for the first time in 2 weeks last night since he has been on the feeding tube. this is huge!
well, he did it outside of the box.
and husband saw it there and decided to LEAVE it.
i said, "pick it up NOW" and he said, "I will, just let me finish this first".
NO NO NO!
That ends today!
When I say something needs to be done, it means NOW.
GRRRRRRRRR!
Am I the only one, ladies?
16 comments:
Um, hell to the no! kent does the same shit... all. the. time. he makes grand promises of cleaning up his shit, but i end up doing it myself.
Guuuuuuuuuuuuurl I hear you on this one. I've just stopped altogether. I mean I do enough to keep the house clean - and I handle my own biznass - and that's it.
Bitching, kvetching, coercing, and even promises of nookie get me a big FAIL everytime.
we were JUST talking about this topic at lunch! the only thing the lovely ladies at my work and I can figure is that as women we feel like it should be EQUAL. Like, we've faught so hard for equality in the workplace, etc. however guys somehow are mentally stuck in the 50's. It sucks and I wish someone had a magic piece of wistom to share. All I know is it starts with their mama. And my boy-child will know all about pulling his weight and doing his fair share.
Singing the same song over here except J and I have different peeves. So he feels this way about me too. However, since I do way more around the house and such I feel like he could at least fold the clothes if he washes them instead of leaving them in the basket until I get fed up and fold them!
Dude I could have written this same post. Kristian's two big jobs are also the garbage and the cat litter and we have two cats as well (and two litter boxes) so after a few days it starts to STINK! I have to remind him to change it all the time! He also constantly leaves his clothes all over the floor and every cabinet/dresser drawer open. I don't know why he can't shut them! HOWEVER he does cook almost every night so I guess that kinda makes up for it.
O.M.WORD! Yes. Mr. Husband PUH-LEEEEZE don't leave the facial hair all over the bathroom cabinet so the next time I pick up the toothpaste there is one stuck to the cap. You are disgusting. Also, I already have to wash your nasty drawers, why should I have to go around the house looking for them, too? Clearly... you are not alone :)
I am SOOOOOOOO glad that I am not the only one that goes through this. It's not hard to put stuff away or clean as you go or when you notice something needs to be done just do it! I only nag cause he doesn't do it in the first place. You are not alone sweetie!
do you have a camera set up in my house? we go through the SAME shit EVER DAY
You are not the only one. It drives me absolutely bat shit. Not only do I live with a husband that does it, but 2 younger males. I want to just strangle them!
Another thing that kills me is when he asks what he can do to help. I tell him, but it's obvs not something he really wants to do so he just ignore my suggestions. WTF. Don't ask shithead if you aren't going to do it.
Natt does this too. its effing annoying. I hate when he leaves it and I try to avoid it, but I hate when its dirty. damn men.
OMG! No! You are not the only one! Argh! I feel the SAME WAY. Honestly, is it that hard? I don't get it either. How do you deal with it? I hate to admit it, but I've become a bit bitter at times. I think it really affects our relationship. :(
ugh, i refuse to clean out the little sink trap thingy, cuz it's NASTY...and i swear i tell the hubs at least 3 times before he does it.
Thank god! Sometimes I feel like its only my husband! Dirty clothes on bathroom floor,wet towel on my bed, hair in sink, shoes removed and left in the main doorway...ugh! I feel ya!
Hell no!!! I can totally relate. Just last night "joe's dog" homie got his butt juice (sorry i know it's gross) that smells worse than rotten fish on the couch and i said NOW come clean this and he said i'm just finishing an email. I don't care if your finishing plans for world peace. N.O.W. thats the least they can do :-) hang in their Summer!!!!! MUCH LOVE FOR YOU GIRL.
it's not just you.
i have issues with my man, too. can't ask him to do a damn thing because a) it will never get done, b) he won't remember what i asked him to do or c) he takes so damn long to get around doing what i asked that it's faster if i just did whatever task myself.
seriously.
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